Types of Human when they mess up
In my life some years on this human planet, I have seen many types of humans. Some were frustrated, some lonely, etc this list never ends. But, of all there is one thing that I have seen common in most humans, that is being messed up. They all have this broken trace of belief or faith which they call hope and a poker face hiding the dark version of themselves. You can characterize humans easily using this chart-
Now, what do you think is common between these two opposite types of humans? It’s unsatisfaction. Emotionless people want to be more sensible and cheerful, that is being emotional. Whereas people filled with emotions, want to be more of an emotionless person because they don’t want to be seen as a crybaby and much more. What comes as a result of this is, humans are originally unsatisfactory. That is, no matter how much good happens to them, they will never be satisfied, making their wants or desire to be unlimited. These unlimited wants end up giving a lot of pain or problems if not achieved. If humans encounter a problem, they will be in between one of these 3 types-
- The blamer personality-
Ever met a person who no matter what wrong he did blames it on others? Maybe he or she lies in this personality. Blamer’s personality is a type of narcissistic thinking/personality. Where a person thinks that they can never be wrong and always blame for misfortunes to others. they would blame everyone, but themselves.
- The Self-doubter-
As common as this personality can be, it always turns into a circumstance in the person’s life who has this. A self-doubter personality as its name can tell is a personality where a person becomes miserable. No matter what happens, Even if that something has nothing to do with them, they will blame themselves. When occurring a problem, rather than solving it they would sit and blame themselves. They would do everything they can to make themselves feel bad with the name of ‘it’s my fault, I am not good enough, and the list goes on. they would blame themselves, but everyone.
- The actual worker-
Now, this type of personality is hard to find. The fun fact about this one is that the person who has this personality would have to go through all the personalities mentioned above, whether Emotionless, Emotional, blamer, or self doubter. It’s pretty much impossible for someone to be in this personality without suffering. A person with this personality accepts his or her mistake when they are wrong and rather than feeling bad about it, They choose to work on it and solve the problem. They can be portrait as somewhere between optimistic and pessimist, that is- Realistic or; they can even be an optimist.
Among all the unlimited desires of humans, the most common one is- ‘perfection’. Call someone ‘perfect’ and they would have an Ego about it for a long time. Why is being perfect desired by many? Because it’s unique. “Depression is bliss” whoever said that he/she was speaking a straight fact. Our pain is capable enough to change us into the best form we can be. It just depends on how you choose to use that pain. If you use it as just suffering, then you might get ruined and more mess. But, if the pain is taken as an opportunity to be better and learn about different perspectives like the worker’s personality. then congrats! You just use your pain in the best form and then you may become the best you can be and even perfect.
By, Anna
